You get what you get and you don't get upset

​I used to restrain myself from expressing my opinions, thoughts, and emotions due to the fear of judgment, misunderstanding, or mockery. 
In reality, this restraint provided no true protection and offered no benefits. In my early twenties I discovered the confidence to embrace my authentic self, to stand by my beliefs. I spoke up, changed my circle of friends, relocated to a different country, and constructed a life aligned with my own perception of what is right for me.

Like everyone, the journey wasn't a smooth ride, and I learned a great deal along the way, humbly absorbing the lessons from various life experiences, both positive and challenging, that shaped my personality.

Reflecting on the past, it's now evident that it was only when I stood up and spoke my truth that I was truly heard, and only when I embarked on my own path that I experienced genuine movement.

These days, I don't worry as much about other people's opinions, and it's liberating. 
What's even more liberating is my newfound ability and confidence in being vulnerable with others. Surprisingly, I've discovered more acceptance than judgment in response.

Who would have thought that what terrified me the most growing up - letting people know how I truly feel and what I genuinely think — could evolve into a source of greater closeness?