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20/6/2018

On Self Talk

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“You have another 5 hours to go, at least. It’s freezing and this is the hardest section of the run, good luck with that! You should have tried the head torch, you can’t see a thing, you are going to kick a rock and bust your toenail, again. Your legs are shuttered; this is going to be a long walk of shame. What were you thinking going out so hard??"

“Last 30 km. Maybe 5 hours?! Then a large pizza! You made it here in exceptional time; now it's cold, you are tired and with the dimmed light from your head torch on this technical trail, you may be better off power walking for a bit. Maybe start running when the course flattens to sprint finish!"


​Both statements are equally true but what a difference!
If you were my support crew I hope you would use the more encouraging one, or you won’t get moving.

The thing is that we often forget we are our own support crew. All the time.
The words we use in our own self-talk have an enormous impact on our training and racing.

The way I see it, the little chatterbox in our heads interprets the external stimuli, processes the feedback from our body, taps into our core values, beliefs and fears, adds some drama and doubts and shakes things up! The final cocktail is a stream of self-talk, a story we tell ourselves, which ends up influencing the reality we experience and our decisions.

It is a story. Although we are the narrators, we should take it with a pinch of salt!
Even better, because we have an active part in telling ourselves that story, we should remember a very powerful principle:

Before you speak, you should ask yourself: Is it kind, is it necessary, is it true, does it improve upon the silence?
[by Socrates (Greek philosopher) first and extended by Sai Baba (Indian guru)]
  • Is it kind? - We know our weak spots, our fears and our deep secrets, there is no need to dig further. Talking from a place of compassion and sensibility is a much better way to communicate in line with our strengths and abilities
  • Is it necessary? - Self-pity takes us nowhere and is completely unnecessary. On the opposite, talking with purpose, positively and constructively support us reaching our goals.
  • Is it true? - We get carried away and embellish things for our own entertainment and out of fear. Bringing objectivity in our self-talk is hard, but gives a “truer” version of reality, something we can act on.
  • Does it improve upon the silence? - There is nothing wrong with being silent, it welcomes the opportunity to listen and get in tune, with our body, the environment, the experience. And if we can’t add any value, why talk at all?!

While we expect others (or should expect) to talk to us accordingly to the above principle, sometimes we have double standards about our self-talk. 
And given we talk to ourselves all the time, day in and day out, during training and during races, we should pay attention to how we talk and what we say to ourselves. 

Imagine if we could rely on our self-talk as our main allay, our internal cheer squad and motivator during races. What a performance booster! The self-talk would reinforce our belief we have the ability to overcome the challenge in front of us. Our mental energy would be invested in constructive and positive thoughts, keeping us grounded, relaxed and on the task. 

I don’t think anyone is immune to negative self-talk. I think it is about recognising it for what it truly is: just a thought, a story we tell ourselves.

A common trait I see with successful and positive people is that they have a different dialogue with themselves and others. And they naturally bring that in their own self-talk, because ultimately we are what we practice. In my opinion, it has less to do with “reframing” a situation but more of a genuine “growing mindset”. In their character, actions, and conversations I see that:
  • They seek out challenges to learn and grow. Not to succeed.
  • They respect effort and dedication.
  • They focus on the things they can control
  • They are present in the moment, in the immediate action ahead and give it 100% unwavering attention
  • They are not judgemental, or final, there is always space for a positive outcome
  • They get massive inspiration from the accomplishments of others like to say “if they did it, I can do it too!"

This is not a complete list of course. I just wanted to point out the obvious we all forget: Tackling negative self-talk begins way before the self-talk starts! A quick fix in isolation, whether its a mantra, a reframing, a long exhale, or loud shouting as I always do when I get overwhelmed, don't help if the base conversation we have with ourselves is not honest, kind, necessary, true and improves upon the silence.

Jason Ibrahim link
20/6/2018 08:42:28

Luca very articulate account of the inner dialogue that can either inspire or deflate our performance and experience. I truly believe like Anthony Robbins says "where focus goes energy flows!".

Loving your blogs and how applicable they are to both life and performance!

Keep up the great work!

Chris
25/6/2018 21:58:56

"Tackling negative self-talk begins way before the self-talk starts!" So true. I'm in the early stages but I'm beginning to feel when the negativity is looming, especially when running, and know to shut it down straight away. That's the plan anyway😁

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