24/5/2023 Intentions vs Actions
As I was running this morning (Tewantin Running Club day!), a phrase I read yesterday popped back into my mind: "We tend to judge others by their behaviour, and ourselves by our intentions." The profound significance of this statement in my own life struck me as an enlightening realization. How frequently had I assessed someone solely based on their actions, without considering their underlying motivations? Worse yet, how often had my judgments been clouded by my own biases?
In contrast, I recognized that when I evaluate my own actions, I tend to justify them with an "insider view". My thoughts, motivations, and intentions serve as a protective shield for my self-perception, enabling me to maintain a positive self-image even when my actions might be less than ideal. It's this discrepancy between how I judge myself and others that leads to misunderstandings, miscommunications, and conflicts. This simple truth provides a plausible explanation for much of the friction I experience in many of my relationships. So, what's the solution? To extend to others the same benefit of the doubt I readily afford myself. And when it comes to my own actions, perhaps I need to scrutinize them more diligently, ensuring they reflect my intentions with full integrity. It's crucial that the impact of my behaviour aligns with my core values, as actions indeed speak louder than words. Comments are closed.
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