24/5/2023 Intentions vs Actions
As I was running this morning (Tewantin Running Club day!), a phrase I read yesterday popped back into my mind: "We tend to judge others by their behaviour, and ourselves by our intentions." The profound significance of this statement in my own life struck me as an enlightening realization. How frequently had I assessed someone solely based on their actions, without considering their underlying motivations? Worse yet, how often had my judgments been clouded by my own biases?
In contrast, I recognized that when I evaluate my own actions, I tend to justify them with an "insider view". My thoughts, motivations, and intentions serve as a protective shield for my self-perception, enabling me to maintain a positive self-image even when my actions might be less than ideal. It's this discrepancy between how I judge myself and others that leads to misunderstandings, miscommunications, and conflicts. This simple truth provides a plausible explanation for much of the friction I experience in many of my relationships. So, what's the solution? To extend to others the same benefit of the doubt I readily afford myself. And when it comes to my own actions, perhaps I need to scrutinize them more diligently, ensuring they reflect my intentions with full integrity. It's crucial that the impact of my behaviour aligns with my core values, as actions indeed speak louder than words. 23/5/2023 Technology is magic
This afternoon I had an online town hall meeting scheduled during lunch break, and a pressing errand to run to the post office.
So I combined the two things and, because I didn't have the car available, I ended up running to the post office, tuning into the town hall on my phone, via my bluetooth headset, over the mobile network. The live stream flowed seamlessly, with crystal-clear audio, all while I was on the move. As I ran and listened, I couldn't help but marvel at the miracle of modern technology at our fingertips. This got me reflecting on the incredible evolution of technology and communication infrastructure over the last 30 years. What a journey it's been, starting from my first interaction with an 8088 computer for my dad's furniture business and assembling my first 486 PC in the early '90s. Every day, I am left astounded by the capabilities of our modern devices. Perhaps my sense of wonder is heightened by my understanding of the intricate processes that go on behind the scenes, but I find the advancements staggering. And the trajectory seems to continue at a ever faster pace. There appears to be no limit to potential applications and innovation. But does the average person truly appreciate the magical world we live in? Will my children be curious about how everything works behind the scene, at a "foundational level" like I do? (And admittedly, I don't even scratch the surface of what is really going on passed a certain point) Just last week, I found myself discussing the concept of "downloading an app" with my 9-year-old. His understanding of the process seems to operate at a level far removed from mine, and I realise that my perspective isn't necessarily relevant to him, or to the majority of the world for that matter. So, what does this mean for us as a society? It appears that technology has already reached a level of abstraction that negates the necessity to comprehend what's happening behind the scenes. We accept our devices as magic boxes that we interact with, no need to peek inside the black box. While the consumer in me finds this convenient and perfectly appropriate, the old-school techie in me feels a tinge of nostalgia. Those days of tinkering with hardware and software, for the joy of making a screen blink, seem to be long one. Regardless, I'm excited to see where this technological rollercoaster will take us next. I maintain my positive outlook, very cautious and skeptical, but positive.
22/5/2023 Steve Irwin
To fully embrace oneself — to be deeply rooted in personal mission, belief, dreams and passion — is the pinnacle of self realisation.
This is no trivial challenge, yet some individuals manage to conquer it, thereby transcending their mere human existence and becoming radiant beacons of inspiration. These unique individuals, found across the spectrum of life, often in the most unexpected places, live out astonishingly diverse yet equally surprising stories. Whether they paint the Mona Lisa or engineer rockets, explore the depths of philosophy or the Mariana Trench, they share a common thread: they are all artists in their own right. Yesterday, while visiting the Australian Zoo with my family, I had the opportunity to delve deeper into the story of one such remarkable individual, Steve Irwin. This larger-than-life figure was an artist of nature, a masterful storyteller who weaved his life's work around the simple yet powerful narrative of conservation. Observing the zookeepers, trainers, volunteers, and even my own kids, all inspired by Irwin's infectious energy, I was filled with immense admiration for Steve's courage to fulfill his calling. I have no doubt it wasn't an easy task. Most of the time, it must have felt like an impossible feat, a solitary fight against the rest of the world. As I walked through the zoo, I found myself more captivated by Irwin's story than by the animals. His photographs, forever capturing moments of him fully immersed in his work, held my attention in every detail. His gaze was captivating, his stance confident, his movements and words full of passion. Each image, each recorded phrase, seemed infused with the boundless spirit of a man who lived his dream and was unapologetically himself. It's moments like these that remind me of the profound impact one individual can have, simply by embracing who they are and living their truth. 19/5/2023 Scared of some cold water. Really?
For all of its restorative properties, my ice bath stirs up a surprising amount of anxiety within me.
There, I said it. There's this nagging voice in the back of my mind that murmurs, "Not today" each time I glance at the empty chest freezer. When I left for my trip to Italy, I emptied and cleaned it. Since returning I ... procastinated. The idea of filling it up, seeing the temperature gauge dropping, the thought of the water gradually dipping to freezing point, have created a mental barrier. I know it's silly. I understand that the act of overcoming this apprehension, taking that leap into the ice cold water, is precisely the purpose of the ice bath. Each time, no matter how many times you've done it, the water remains just as shockingly cold, the impact is just as real. It doesn't become a walk in the park, ever. And yes, that feeble excuse I tell myself - "we're not in summer anymore" - it's just an excuse. Because the season makes little difference once you're already submerged in the ice-cold water! So, it's time for action. Today. Right Now. No more excuses, no more running from the inevitable. All it takes is a deep breath, a hard look in the mirror, and the courage to confront the truth. It's just water. 18/5/2023 My hat off to Mark Zuckerberg.
The man has just won his first Brazilian Jiu Jitsu competition, a feat truly worthy of applause, in my opinion.
Mark Zuckerberg, who needs no introduction, certainly has nothing to prove to anyone. He already possesses what most people could only dream of – influence, wealth, success. But here's what is genuinely remarkable: he chose to put himself out there, to train extensively and to compete publicly in a sport that I imagine is both physically and mentally demanding. This competition could have easily taken a different turn. He might have been defeated and faced mockery on the very platforms he created. (Although, I tend to believe he wouldn't have entered the ring if he didn't think he had a fair chance.) Personally, I'm delighted that his hard work and dedication paid off. This victory, in my view, likely signifies years of intense training, multiple sacrifices, and the investment of what I assume is limited free time for someone like Mark. It demonstrates that, irrespective of your social status, power, or wealth, striving for something, pushing our limits, makes life interesting, rewarding, and fun. So Mark, well done! But hey, while we're discussing pushing limits, why not give ultra-running a try? I seem to recall you expressing an interest in picking up running a few years ago. I'd be honoured to coach you! |
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